What do you really, truly believe?

J.P. Montalvan • July 18, 2022
“Whether you think you can, or you think you can't, you're right.”
- Henry Ford

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We regularly and routinely underestimate the power of our beliefs. When we believe we can do great things, we lead our lives toward those greater things. And when we lie, cheat and steal, those too are all about our beliefs.

Lies. We all lie. If you don’t think you lie regularly, you’re lying to yourself right now. :) I’m not talking all about big lies — I’m talking about the little lies. The answer you give to “how do I look” or the answer you ask someone to say that is “tell her I’m not here.” What does the accumulation of all these lies do to our integrity?

Cheating. We might cheat on something or someone else…we might take a shortcut or break a commitment. What happens when the “easy road” becomes a regular part of our lives?

Stealing. Ouch. No, that office pen we take home isn’t ours. How about that extra food we eat? Aren’t we really stealing from ourselves — from what we really want for our health and wellness?

Take Vladimir Putin’s beliefs. He says neo-Nazis in Ukraine were committing genocide on other Ukrainians – a lie. His claim has no evidence (let alone the genocide committed by Russians with the invasion). Putin cheating Ukrainians — even his own Russian people — of liberty is unconscionable. A recent estimate counts over 1,000,000 Ukrainians forcibly relocated to Russia by Russian forces. Russia’s stealing of Ukrainian food, destined for some the world’s hungriest people, may be one of the largest crimes against humanity this war will see.

Putin is dying. As is Russia. Beliefs that espouse lies, cheating and stealing eventually rot a person, a community, or a country to the core.

On the other side we have Volodymyr Zelensky. What a contrast to Putin.

Zelensky also shows the power of our beliefs, particularly when we believe both in what we ourselves can do while also believing in something greater than ourselves.

Zelensky has shown a penchant for telling the truth — perhaps the harsh, undiplomatic truth. Of what the Russians were doing. Of what the West was not doing.

Rather than cheat his people with the empty words of a politician, he donned the clothing of a man at war, and against the wishes of his security detail, walks the streets of Kyiv, meeting with his fellow Ukrainians, sharing his vision over and over, inspiring people to act.

He gives. His strength, his energy, and his caring. All because of the power of his beliefs.

What are you doing to build empowering beliefs?

I recently shared my “UpStart Your Life” workshop with some of you (and I missed those of you who were unable to join). I shared the “3 Rules to UpStart Your Life” and Rule #1 was to “Build Your Belief.”

It can be hard, especially in the world today, to see that success in all the domains of our lives is within our grasp. It’s in the mindset behind our past successes that we find clues on what our mindset needs to be when we’re pushing for great happiness – for what we really want.

If you missed “UpStart,” click here for the video where we talk about Rule #1. UpStart dives much deeper than we can go in this writing, but If I break down Rule #1 – and Step #1 of the “3 Steps to UpStart Your Life” to their simplest…

Visualize your beliefs and your outcomes.

This visualization isn’t a yearly practice. Or even a quarterly practice. This is a daily practice. Zelensky and the Ukrainian resistance aren’t having success against Russia, arguably the 2nd or 3rd most powerful military in the world, by having fleeting beliefs.

Just yesterday, Zelensky said he and his country need to have “emotional sovereignty” so they don’t rely on propaganda from the Russians. What he’s talking about is building empowering beliefs.

That’s what we’re doing in our Leadership Circle every week. If you’re interested in joining us, I’d love to have you. And if I don’t see you, I hope you will find some time in your journey to revisit, reset and rebuild your beliefs.
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