Could you handle Hurricane Ian?
J.P. Montalvan • October 9, 2022
“The cord and the robe ties I used to tie us together. Thank god for protecting me and my babies."
- Jessica Willett
photo via facebook.com/jwillett0219
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Or Just a Little Rain?
Hurricane Ian was apocalyptic.
We’ve seen a lot of powerful, destructive storms hit the U.S. What makes these kinds of storms incredible are both how the storms surprise us and their ability to bring out the best in all of us.
I remember the story of Jessica Willett, a mother of two and survivor of the historic flooding that hit eastern Kentucky in August.
With floodwaters so fast and strong that they were moving houses, Willett realized that she wouldn’t be able to walk through the waters with her two children. To keep her family together and prevent them from being washed away, Willett looked around her home to see what she could use.
"I thought of the next best thing to a rope, which was a vacuum cord. So, I cut it in half and tied us together." For Willett, using the vacuum cord to tie herself to her children was a way to save them — or if she were to fail, to ensure that her family was found together.
My heart breaks for the people who lose their lives in these storms, who lose loved ones, and who lose their businesses and their homes. My heart is also inspired by the stories of survival, of people really leaning in as they face the eye of the storm.
It’s in storms like Hurricane Ian and like the one Jessica Willett faced with her family — it’s in the rising waters and whirlwinds we face — that we can find 3 critical leadership lessons.
#1 — A storm can shift and hit you head on.
#2 — A storm will test your resilience, no matter how prepared you are.
#3 — The time to plan and practice for a storm is well before the storm.
A big drop in business. A job loss. The sudden illness or death of a family member. A traumatic injury. A pandemic. A hurricane. All these are storms — literally or figuratively. Whether you’re leading your business or you’re leading your family, storms happen. We can’t predict when or where they will hit with much accuracy — we’ll usually get only a few days or a few moments' notice.
But we can predict with 100% certainty that we will face serious storms in our lives.
What are you doing to prepare for a storm? No matter where you are, it’s not too late to plan and practice for the next storm. The time to prepare for the storm is not when the storm is on the horizon.
What does that preparation look like? Here are my “3 Practices of Crisis Leadership”:
(1) Practice being your leader-self
(2) Practice being a leader-preparer
(3) Practice being a leader-defender
What are you doing to build your foundation as a leader? To be the best leader, think about growing “leader-self” habits, from collaboration to decisiveness, so you can face the storm with strength.
What are you doing to prepare yourself, your family, your finances and your fitness to not just survive but thrive in a storm? Think about challenging your mind with role-playing games, consistently setting 10%, 5% or even 1% of your earnings aside for emergencies, and pushing your body just a bit beyond its comfort zone.
And finally, what are you doing to practice the fight you'll face with both the enemy outside and the enemy within? Think about the confidence you’ve built in past storms, and how you would bring that power to face the upcoming storm. Here's a
"Quick Take" I shared with my Leadership Circle on how you can think about fighting the enemy within.
And when you face the storm, please reach out. We don’t always have to face our storms alone.

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